Is it just me, or are there other mamas out there dealing with nonstop pee catastrophes, blowouts, and spit-up?Sometimes I wonder if this is a boy thing or if it’s just my little man, because the amount of laundry and stain remover I go through should honestly be illegal. Jokes aside, I wanted to share what has helped me survive these messy moments as I navigate life with a baby who seems to spit up, poop, and pee all day long.

If you’re feeling nervous about moving your baby from the bassinet to the crib, trust me—you’re not alone. Transitioning George from his bassinet to his crib in his own room was something I was really worried about. (Cue heart palpitations.) Having him so far away from me felt like a really big deal, and my mind would race to worst-case scenarios. I loved having him in the bassinet beside my bed—not only for the ease of feeding at night but also because it was comforting to have him right next to me. Sadly, that did have to come to an end, and now that we’ve transitioned him, I’m so glad we finally did it.

I always knew that I wanted to breastfeed my baby, but that didn't mean it was going to be a smooth process. It definitely wasn’t smooth — in fact, it turned out to be a lot more stressful than I had imagined. There were ups and downs filled with tears, pain, and frustration. I’m happy to say that it’s no longer that way and has turned into a wonderful bonding experience with George. I hope that by sharing my story, I can help ease someone else’s worries by showing that we breastfeeding mamas are not alone.

Those early days after birth can feel like a lot — your body has gone through a major change. I want to share my experiences from my postpartum journey and some tips that might help you feel better on your own. I think it’s important to talk about these things because we often forget to share what we’ve learned — sometimes out of embarrassment or simply because it doesn’t cross our minds. If I can help ease the experience for you, then I’m happy to share.

My birth experience as a first-time mom was amazing. It has been a few months since my delivery, but I’ll recount it as best as I can. I’m going to be giving a lot of details here, so if you’re at all worried about childbirth, please do not read any further.